Hunger, thirst, coldness, and tiredness: sensations that drive a lifeform to act, to secure something it needs for survival–food, water, heat, rest. We share them with lower animals. We experience them as sensations, and while we are not free of the requirements they point to, we have some ability to resist their force on us.
How about the sex drive? It can be placed in that category too. It’s another basic, lizard-brain life-sustaining process. Some call it a ‘need’. But it’s a strange one. Its goal, getting a lifeform to mate with another of its species, isn’t necessary for individual survival. But it is for group survival.
Continue reading “The challenge of the sex drive”
My previous post was a bit all over the place. This one will be more focused. Sticking to a single topic.
Anyway. I’m still a virgin and casual sex is not really an option.
Continue reading “Casual sex. Why not?”
ASD, or anti-slut defence is a term used in the PUA or Red Pill space. It refers to behavioural and psychological tendencies of women to resist seduction by men they really want to have sex with, in order to maintain their non-slutty reputation and self-image.
An ASD is a method used by a girl to abstain herself from responsibility during a situation where there is a likelihood of sex/intimacy.
PUA discussion of ASD centres around methods to overcome it. They discuss methods of influencing the woman’s psychological state, heightening her sexual desire, and making her feel comfortable and safe from condemnatory judgement. The aim is to prevent ASD obstructions, or manage them when they arise.
Continue reading “On ‘anti-slut defence’ tactics, ‘slut-shaming’, and their critics”
I responded to a thread on The Red Pill subreddit.
Does a sex abundant lifestyle, being a player an alpha male actually lead to happiness?
Continue reading “Sex and happiness”
It’s time to write this shit down. I have not totally clarified these thoughts in my mind, and I doubt that I can communicate them in an optimal manner here and now, but I’ll begin my attempt anyway.
Before I begin: a warning. If you read and understand this theorem, you may never want to be involved in a sexual/romantic relationship ever (again). If the reasoning holds up, then the conclusion is that sex or romantic relationships are inherently anti-rational, unavoidably non-consensual (and therefore unethical).
Continue reading “Arousal as intoxication, and the infinite regress of reciprocal meta-desire; diabolical theorems”
Even if you’re convinced bombing is a judicious move, why suicide? Why not live to bomb another day?
They’re miserable and they want to die.
Continue reading “Thoughts on terrorist bombers, reasons, and reason”
He replied to my post on natalism indicating he might… or he might not. I can’t really blame him if he doesn’t think that to respond would be worthwhile. My answers may seem to reveal that my core position is far removed from his own, and has a religious aspect to it. And arguing with religious nutjobs is known to be often quite futile. And if it’s a tiny, non-influential cult, that’s even less worthy of engagement.
Continue reading “I wonder if Francois will talk to me again”